国外摄影师拍摄的妈妈日常:我们这群熊孩子竟然如此“残酷”?

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新东方英语   2019-6-9 23:54   1976   0


Mother's Day
12 May 2019

God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.

-Rudyard Kipling



上帝没办法无处不在,因此他创造了母亲。

——拉迪亚德·吉卜林(英国作家)


All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.
-Abraham Lincoln



我已经成为和希望成为的一切,都要归功于我天使般的母亲。
——亚伯拉罕·林肯


My mother is a walking miracle.
-Leonardo DiCaprio

我妈妈就是个行走的奇迹!
——莱昂纳多·迪卡普里奥

今天是母亲节,正如上面的引述一样,母亲温柔善良、伟大无私,母亲教会我们飞翔,让我们成长为想要的模样,她是爱的化身,是天使般的神仙存在,是无所不能超人,只要我们需要,她就会随时出现在我们身边~



我们穷极一切夸赞的词汇来形容母亲,也会在今天送上礼物和祝福,但或许等我们真正长大,甚至经历了初为人母的体验,才会真正感受到母亲的辛劳和伟大。


正如这位妈妈摄影师Giedre Gomes一样,用22张照片将身边新妈妈残酷的真实生活展现给大家,为我们呈现了一份别样的母亲节礼物。



01

Motherhood Is Never Peeing Alone
上个厕所也得有人跟着




02

Motherhood Is Never Shopping In Peace
从来无法安静购物





Everyone talks about how special motherhood is, and the bond shared with a child is unlike any other, it’s a magical journey that is both rewarding and satisfying, and I couldn’t agree more. I absolutely love being a mom, it’s the best jobin the world. I am a mom of two boys and love them to pieces, but motherhood is not always all rainbows and butterflies.


所有人都说母亲这个角色是多么特别,她们和孩子之间的纽带和其他任何人的关系都不能相提并论,说做妈妈很开心,而且很值得,是一段奇妙之旅,我也完全是这么想。我非常爱妈妈这个角色,我觉得这是世界上最好的工作,我自己就是两个男孩的妈妈,我简直爱死他们了,但做妈妈也不全是彩虹和蝴蝶般的美好生活。


03

When The Kids Go To Sleep
孩子睡了之后看这些书



《老虎食子,现在我懂了》
《在不发疯的前提下帮助孩子形成自己的思维》
《如何在已崩溃之时与孩子正确相处》


04

Sleep Never Lasts Long, They Find You
睡不了整觉,因为他们永远会找到你




05

Motherhood Is Being Your Kids' Entertainer
妈是孩子的玩具





06

Motherhood Is Never Sleeping In
永远别想睡懒觉





07

Sometimes Moms Need A Time Out To Have A Sip Of Wine And Check On Their Phones
有时也需要一点自己的时间来喝口酒、刷刷手机





08

Motherhood Is Breastfeeding Whenever Wherever
当妈的随时随地都在喂奶





Motherhood is not remembering what it's like to get a full night's sleep, wiping more poop than you ever thought you'd see in your life. Motherhood is no longer having privacy, never peeing or showering in peace.


当妈后已经记不得睡个整觉是什么感觉,擦的粑粑比之前看到的所有粑粑都多。当妈后不再拥有隐私,连尿尿和洗澡的时间都不是自己的了。


Motherhood is using your shirt to wipe runny noses and dirty faces. Motherhood is learning how to do everything with one hand while carrying a baby in another. Motherhood is waking up with a little butt or foot in your face. Motherhood is breastfeeding whenever wherever.


当妈的要用自己的衣服给孩子擤鼻涕擦脸。当妈后还得学习单手托娃,单手做事。当妈的每天早上醒来,脸上不是娃儿的屁股就是他的脚丫。还有无论何时何地,喂奶都要随时准备着。
09

Motherhood Is Never Ending Laundry
当妈后有洗不完的衣服





10
Motherhood Is Never Showering In Peace
洗个澡也不得安生





11
Motherhood Is Being Kicked In The Face At Night
睡觉会被踢到脸





12

Motherhood Is Cooking With One Hand
练就了单手做饭的技能





13

Motherhood Is Trying To Keep Your Kids Alive
要尽力让孩子们保持活力





14

Motherhood Is Not Being Able To Call In Sick
当妈的不允许生病






15

Motherhood Is Being A Nurse Or Wiping Kids' Noses With Your Shirt
妈变保姆,用自己的衣服给孩子擦鼻涕





Motherhood is yoga pants and bad hair day. Motherhood is no longer shopping alone. Motherhood is having a filthy car all the time. Motherhood is not being able to call in sick because it's a 24/7 job without a paycheck and the list goes on.


当妈的每天穿着瑜伽裤,头发乱糟糟,逛街也不再是一个人。当妈的每天都要处理脏兮兮的小汽车。当妈的不允许生病,因为这是一份没有薪水但7*24h全年无休的工作。


But in the end, I wouldn't have it any other way. Being a mom means being completely and totally overwhelmed by love, joy, responsibility, and selflessness.


工作任务还在增加,但归根到底,我也不会用其他方式来经历这种生活。做一个妈妈,你就要完全地成为爱、欢乐、责任和无私的化身。



16

Motherhood Is Having No Privacy
当妈的没有隐私





17

Motherhood Is Having Little Helpers To Help You Cook
做饭也有了小帮手





18

Motherhood Is Being A Housekeeper
妈妈也是保洁员





19

Motherhood Is Trying Not To Lose Your Mind
尽量控制自己不被逼疯





20

Motherhood Is Being A Maid
当妈的还是女仆





21

Motherhood Is Breastfeeding On Demand
当妈的要随时满足需求






22
Motherhood Is Never Shopping Alone
从来无法独自购物





With the help of my mommy friends, I created this little project just in time for Mother’s day, to remind everyone what motherhood really looks like.


在其他妈咪朋友的帮助下,我创作了这组作品,献给母亲节,让大家看看做为母亲,她们的真实生活。





对于这些新妈妈来说,除了体尝到了做母亲的喜悦感和满足感外,伴随她们的还有忙碌、痛苦和焦虑。早到得知有宝宝的准妈妈,到为了育儿不得已改变自己人生规划和轨迹的新妈妈,一直到看着孩子离自己渐行渐远的老母亲,“成为母亲”的残酷现实远远不止这些。


给大家展示妈妈们的另一面,不是让年轻人产生恐婚、恐生的想法,而是想让我们看到,妈妈也不是我们想当然地那样坚不可摧,或是想象中的那般美好,或许了解了她们的不完美和有时的不快乐,才能真正理解、关心、支持她们,让她们快乐!





最后给大家放送一个让东方君笑中带泪的母亲节广告视频,视频中爸妈身份互换,让爸爸体验做一天妈妈,一天下来终于发现,原来主持内务的妈妈并不是我们想象中的那么简单!


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我们眼中的理所当然,是妈妈的每日担当,这样一位全技能长在线的超级英雄,只有一天的节日祝福怎么能够,尽量多的日常陪伴才是让母亲们更快乐的事情!

陪伴是最长情的告白,对母亲来说亦如是。在今天这个特殊的节日里,东方君祝天下所有的妈妈:



本文仅作学习交流使用,不作商业用途。
文章中部分来源:
https://www.boredpanda.com/mother-children-photography-mothers-day-giedre-gomes/


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